Learning From Bad Guy

Everyone want to be something in life. We want best from Life, Friends, Parents, and others but we forget to accept one thing in life that Best coming from bed things always. Sometimes we learn great things from bad guy rather than good guy.

We have to observe people what people are doing and why? When small child comes in this world he or she observe us and learn things to do. Everyone have different understanding power at different different ways, one can understand easily and other takes long way.

Bad guy that isn't mean bad or ugly. Bad guy means that guy failure from doing some things. One of the popular words from respected person, "I am not failure 100 times but I am good enough from the last time." but this words doesn't mean to anything to you it only effective only when you achieved some things.

I believed myself that only truth one can survive and other can not. This truth is only truth as on my view point but for not others. In this world even if all knows truth we have to prove one otherwise you will be miserable and no one come and give you encouragement and untruth will survive. So be a fighter for self. It is always depends on what other thinking about that particular thing, so you can not says anybody to do such things as you believed so be communicated to others.

Sometimes we just imagine of somethings and react on that thing as we thinks about that particular things i.e., the office manager come and see one person working hard and other person doing little things and accordingly he/she encourage that employee. After this other employee don't feel good about this. If he/she communicate with manager than only he/she get recognized and get new work and encouragement.

One studied from Gujarati medium and after 12th standard he/she got admission in English medium for graduation. He/she don't know how to speak in English and what he/she have to do for my better English in front of audience. He/she will be unrecognized if he/she not try to speak. Yes it is always  happens when you started to speak other may make joke about you and it hurts sometimes a lot and that times you think about quit to go in front people and you do. Such things will gone if you never thinking about people around you and just focus on learning.

One from good book mention that you don't have to show your show your emotion to other but when other do than you have to hear things from them and not give solution but we do always mistakes give solution and after that this people always react not good as they want to hear things as they want to hear. So it is advisable to give solution to those who can understand that this is not a one answer it may be different according situation. At same case when you want to find solution of something then this people are not helping but they will show you bed reaction. So be ready yourself for this kind of people and be curious to know about things and be a champion.

It taking time but don't think what people thinks about you, think positive that I am better than before and I am still improving. For improving self best exercise is observed people around you. Observe means not just observe them but also think and questions yourself why? And we did another mistakes that we do same things and we involve self to them and wasting our time for nothing.

During graduation  sir give one topic related to where to spend money either on space research program or on military and he make five people groups. In our group we are five members. In group discussion we have to shared with others what we think about related topic and at last making summary of that and decide what we will presented. One guy got excited because he feel free to share and he shared all things what he know about presentation. When presentation started four guys excited and present whole thing last guy got frustrated and he speak nothing when he get chance. In this case he fail in front of interviewer.

He learn in that case is if we shared something, do not share whole knowledge reserved something for you otherwise you got fool.

Don't thinks much, you have to do just one things that is 'When You are learning something don't think about what other people think about you and you have to do what you have to do... "Think about Child how child learns things from you and from others".
If you want to learn... Why shame?? Be like child.

If you want to learn something from other you have to with other even sometime you may not have good answer you have to stick with your goal and you doesn't mind yourself for asking to someone. If you learn this there is no one can stop to achieve your goal.

BE A BAD GUY.